Is it awful to be angry with someone who’s died?

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We're told not to speak ill of the dead, but what if you're furious with them? Why anger can be part of grief, even if you loved them.

Why can’t I manage the simplest things since someone died?

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The email goes unanswered. The washing stays in the machine. Why can everyday jobs take so much more effort when you’re grieving?

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You can miss someone terribly and still laugh at something silly. Grief makes more sense when we stop expecting stages.

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“How do you feel?” seems a kind question. But answering it involves more than we realise, especially when someone is neurodivergent.